Happy pride month everyone! I been bisexual my whole life and was scared to share this to the world. But I am no longer afraid. I was afraid of not being accepted, loved or supported by the ones close to me for this but now I hold no cares. This seems like a late post as I have accepted being bi for years now but only came out to myself and some people close to me. But this is the year to share with all. So how did I know I was bi? I remember in Kindergarten I had my first girl crush and thinking she was so pretty. I didn't think much about it as a kid but then I used to have a lot of anxiety growing up about potentially being bi as I started to question my sexuality and I expressed my bi self by wearing gender neutral clothes or guy clothes. I also heavily became interested in streeetwear. I loved the streetwear show PAQ and got many style inspiration from the boys there and gals on the show.
So there was a point where I felt comfortable to talk about questioning my sexuality in therapy. I told her about how I saw Choni on Riverdale and I have a girl crush on both Cheryl and Toni. Then, I would listen to Raveena's music about being bi. My therapist suggested some books to read about bisexual that I have yet to read. I also came across a lot of queer people in the spiritual community that helped feel like home.
Later, on I told, my mom and cousin about being bi. I told a friend I had a crush on her and that passed then I recently came out to my sister and now the public here. Look forward to continue this journey and if you're questioning or know you're queer but don't feel comfortable sharing it's okay because there is a safe space to share and a great community to get involved with. Look forward to go to pride next year when my good friend is back from being in Japan.
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